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Jealous-See! |
| Date Added: July 31, 2008 02:30:45 PM |
| Author: anju |
| Category: Society: Women |
| So, are you turning into green-eyed monster?When you first connect with someone and look into his/her eyes, it seems like he/she is the only person in the room.But soon, a sudden realization hits you: You two are not alone on this planet.There are others as well!Are they a threat? In some ways, this ‘you-belong-to-me-and-I belong-to-you’ mentality is sweet.The very stuff of pop songs and poetry.But, at times, the intensity of that connection is too strong.When one sees everyone with whom their partner comes into contact as a potential threat, it’s a sign of jealousy. Perhaps you don’t have enough trust in your partner or are unsure about his/her fidelity.The lack of trust me be prompted by these factors: * You may feel insecure about your self-worth.Some part of your inner self feels that you just don’t measure up.Because you don’t love yourself, you can’t believe that others would love you, so you live in fear that he/she will leave. * You are prone to cheating on your partner, may even have done so.Knowing what you are capable of you simply project that behaviour on to your partner. * You and your partner have not yet figured out how to establish the safe boundaries within the relationship to reinforce your own tight bond. * Your mate is cheating on you.Cheating does not have to include sex; if often has to do with making an emotional connect outside the relationship.If your partner is sharing things about your private life with attractive members of the opposite sex, it robs a sense of intimacy from your relationship and vulnerable.Put your focus on building trust.You have got some growing up to do.Both of you have to learn to set boundaries in the relationship. Jealousy is a common feeling experienced in relationships.When you first meet a date, he/she is a stranger and what he/she does outside does not matter much.But when you relation with that person grows, you want that person exclusively for yourself.Often, it is the lack of trust that leads to feeling of fear, which in turn lead to insecurity and jealously. It can leave a person feeling vulnerable and frustrated.Faith is the hallmark of any healthy relationship. Don’t let your own inadequacies and fear of loss take over your better judgment.You must stay connected to reality. |
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